Showing posts with label encourage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label encourage. Show all posts

Friday, 5 October 2012

Leadership Skills

Many kids show good leadership traits from an early age. Its the parents duty to develop these traits into proper directions and help the kids turn into better leaders of tomorrow The term leadership skills refers to a series of skills that allow a person to succeed in the top positions of a career. When it comes to learning leadership skills, kids are in a winning position, as they can be taught without pressure and guided through the process at their own pace. To make sure our kids develop the right kind of leadership skills, please go through the below tips.

Developing communication skills: Developing good communication skill is the most important factor in the making of a good leader, and this can be encouraged from an early age by working on reading and speaking. You can read aloud for the kids who still cant read themselves. Keep on conversing with the kids, by asking them questions, and making them answer those questions, as this means that they are listening and learning to interact.

Encourage independence: Try to make the child independent to some extent. When the child wants to something on his or her own, don't stop. If your children say that they can do something for themselves, let them do it. The attempt is more important than the result. This goes for almost anything, from setting up the table to cleaning up the bedroom. Even if the results are less than satisfying, praise your children and resist the urge to fix things yourself.

Problem Solving Skills:
Developing good problem solving skills is one of the important aspect for our potential leaders. One easy way to do it is to role-play with the child. In this role-play, present the child with a difficult situation he might encounter when playing with another child or sibling. Challenge the child to come up with solutions that will resolve the conflict. Encourage and help him come up with as many solutions as possible. Then, discuss the pros and cons of each solution. This will help structure how a child thinks about solving problems he encounters.

Encourage organization: Leaders need to know how to manage their time and guide others towards a common goal. You can encourage this by giving your children the power to make decisions. For example, older kids can take part in the planning and organization of a trip, deciding how to change or decorate a room or choosing their own after-school activities. You can also use these opportunities to help yours kid develop problem-solving skills, as they may have to make choices to meet budget, time or environmental constraints.


Instill confidence in your kids: When something new is accomplished, praise it, whether it is a new development at school, learning how to tie their own shoes or reading faster or with less mistakes. Small steps mean a lot at that age and kids will revel in accomplishments that may not seem all that important to you. Developing self-esteem is essential to achieving leadership skills.

Monday, 28 November 2011

Children and money

            In today's world, working parents can hardly take out enough time for their children. With such little time, the parents feel like pampering their children with gifts, toys, clothes, chocolates and ice-creams weekend visits to the shopping malls adds to the pampering. parents want to give their kids more than what they got growing up. But do the kids take these things with a right attitude? How do we balance between giving our kids the moon and the stars and at the same time make them appreciate the value of money? Here are some effective ways to make your child money wise:


Give them limited choice. do not shower your child with gifts, toys and books. Ration them out. Let them play with the new toy to their heart's content. Only then they can be given a new one.


Pocket money: Fix a reasonable amount of pocket money for your children. Do not merely hand over few notes to the child. If you show respect for the money, the child will also do that. Also keep a tab on the child's spending habits. Ask them for an account of the money that is spent. 

Encourage the habit of saving in your child. Tell them that if they save money this month, they can get double the money saved, for the next month. 


Whenever you are going out for shopping with you kids, you can fix a sum of money for their shopping and hand it over to them. Let them buy anything that fits into that amount. This method develops appreciation for money in your child and also saves you from arguing with your child about what to buy and what not to.

Above all, parents themselves must be a role model to their children. Practise what you preach.

Money makes the world go round, and your children should know at an early age that a lot of hard work goes into the monthly pay cheque. The next time you hasten to pull out your wallet to appease your child, think again.

-Deepa


Sunday, 20 November 2011

Creativity in kids





As soon as a child is born, parents start making plans for him or her. It’s the basic tendency every parent feel, which is genuine too. Later as the child grows, they get into the job of              implementing the plan that they have been making for it since its birth. But most of the parents never think of the child’s own creative instinct. Every child has his or her own form of creative visualization, like singing, dancing, drawing, or any other forms of arts for that matter. Young children perceive the world in their own unique way and need the freedom to express these perceptions creatively. The parents must allow the children to explore and independently discover their world.
                Unfortunately the children are under so much pressure to conform to the expected standards, that the individual talents are totally ignored. They are driven with a set of expectations irrespective of their likings. The tremendous pressure on the kids perplexes them from bringing out their hidden talents and hence it stays unexplored.
So, do we finally just let the situation take over the lives of our children or do we let the child explore its hidden talents?
Parents can go thru few points jotted below to nurture the child’s creative flash or sporting talent.
·         Believe in the fact that the academic excellence is not the only source of existence.
·         A basic level of knowledge is must, but there should also be a line driven in between to identify the child’s abilities and interests it has in mind.
·         Realizing the real potential of the kid in a chosen level of the likings directly leads to happiness and high self esteem.
·         Expose the child to wide-ranging environments, activities & creative shops at an early age.
·         Allow the child the freedom to play and explore without any constraints.
·         Have the child attend various workshops and summer camps so that they get more involved in extracurricular activities.
·         Activities like gardening, painting, crafts,swimming etc. creates interest in the kids and get them involved as well.
Finally, Parents can educate creativity to children by emphasizing Out-of-the-box ideas in a non-evaluative framework. Parents can also motivate the children to have the opportunity and confidence to take the ride on a rollercoaster risks, challenges and see things in a new way.
Remember that - every child is special in its own way and not equally intelligent or creative as other.
-   Deepa